How To Avoid The Charm Of Broken People

When you’re needy, it’s easy to get swept up in relationship drama. In fact, if you come from a dysfunctional background, the craziness you experience is downright familiar.

But if you truly want a better life, you need to let go of the madness and start living.

This means knowing what you want, and settling for nothing less.

So many of you are easily compromised.

Someone gives you a little attention and you fall apart, readily turning yourself over to the “one” that indulges your personal fiction; your self-esteem stunted by promises of what could be.

I understand.

The depths of your neediness seem like a bottomless pit, from which there is no escape. (Where is the light switch in this dark room?)

Still, you must persist.

If you believe there is a way, you will find one.

They’re no quick answers or shoulders to lean on. In fact, you must liberate yourself as you go along; like building a ladder while climbing, one rung at a time.

Believing you can change is walking through the door to a better life.

Take a cold, unsentimental, look at your life and relationships. Then make changes.

Don’t compromise.

Self-love is the greatest love. This fact is immutable.

He or she that strikes your fancy, is all about getting theirs. You’re a bit player, a useful tool, in a continuum of madness that’s never-ending.

Get off the tracks and let this crazy making locomotive pass. Take cover in your personal truth, which is always affirming.

Let go of issues rooted in contradiction, and desires that can’t be fulfilled.

You deserve better.

Take care,

Gary

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