How To Get Rid Of Idols
Stop idolizing people; it’s a sign of low self-esteem.
No person is worth your adoration. I don’t care who they are, or what they’ve accomplished. They don’t deserve your undivided attention. You are peers, not master and slave.
Remember, there is no spiritual hierarchy. Everyone is equal. Manifest this by nurturing your uniqueness.
You’ve been chosen to experience life. There’s no greater honor. Don’t degrade this blessing by denying your truth.
Let awareness govern your thoughts and actions. But be especially mindful when choosing acquaintances. Not everyone has attained your level of understanding. Evil haunts the spiritually bereft.
So when encountering turmoil; remain correct. Don’t be swayed by negatives. Have faith, your omnipotent soul force will protect, nurture and guide you.
Wrapped in universal security, you’re now free to dream big, take chances.
Discard the commonplace. Never compare yourself to others. Respect your path by deciding what’s best for you. Accept challenges and make tough decisions that shape character and forge wisdom.
There’s a universe of rewards within your grasp. Seize them!
This is your time!
Take care,
Gary
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Are you living a quality life? How do you know?
Like most people, your parents probably raised to seek security, believing “things” could save you from the vicissitudes of life.
You have decided on consequence based on the risk-averse conditioning that informs your career, family and social choices, while naively gaping media sponsored images of “happiness” and “success.”
If you’ve done some real living and analyzed your experiences, you’ll find; there’s no haven.
But many people struggle with this truth, finding it difficult to transition into adulthood.
This is unfortunate, because if you’re serious about living a quality life, you must embrace reality.
What exactly does this mean?
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Your emotional awareness must be tangible, reflected in everyday life.
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Give serious thought to your beliefs and how they influence your actions.
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Question your values. Are they really yours? Or societal programming to ensure your conformity?
Leave no cognitive or psychical stone unturned. Eradicate an untenable world view and forge a new paradigm that buttresses your true identity and nourishes your spirit.
Avoid escaping self-responsibility through concepts and “isms,” or by becoming a “joiner.” These are traps for lazy people who think someone else can solve their problems.
You must believe in yourself and become your truth.
By stepping forward and taking full responsibility for every aspect of your life, you’ll feel liberated from the confusion and fear that limits most people.
Now is the time!
Live your essence and realize the inner peace you desire.
Take care,
Gary
8 Factors That Influence Your Self-Esteem
There are many factors in life that influence your self-esteem. These factors can either build you up, or bring you down.
Childhood
Your childhood is one of the main influences on your self-esteem.
When you are growing up, everyone around you has the potential to influence the person you become.
For example, children that grow up in chaotic home environments tend to have low self-esteem, often carrying this burden their entire lives.
Society
The pressures of society are a main contributor to low self-esteem.
Everyone is pressured to live a certain way, dress a certain way, have a certain kind of job and act accordingly.
These pressures can weigh on you, often leading to emotional despair.
Media
Our absolute obsession with the media, whether it is print ads, television, or social media, definitely undermines healthy emotional development, especially in today’s youth.
The ready access to social media is a major influence on young minds to look or act like celebrities, public figures, or even their peers.
It can be hard not to compare yourself to others even as an adult and overwhelming for young people struggling with identity issues.
Beliefs
Religions and belief systems can contribute to your sense of self-worth.
Your means of worship can build you up, filling your life with love and joy.
Conversely, some religions suggest that people are inherently bad (sinners), despite the quality of their lifestyles.
While most belief systems are not designed to control and oppress individuals, sometimes their practices and ideas can negatively influence self-esteem.
Friends and Family
The people you spend time with have a big influence on your self-esteem.
Your friends can help you develop a positive self-image, or they can bring you down.
Some people even humiliate each other to build themselves up, whether or not they are aware of what they are doing.
The family that you grew up with, as well as the family that you come home to, can have a profound effect on your self-esteem.
For instance, feelings of inadequacy may arise when trying to providing for your family, while a family that works together and builds each other up can contribute to healthy self-esteem.
Romantic Involvements
All relationships can influence your self-esteem, but romantic relationships tend to have the biggest effect.
Being in a happy and loving relationship can boost your self-esteem.
However, a negative relationship can diminish you.
For example, a bad break-up or being left by a partner can weigh heavily on your confidence, negatively affecting you emotionally.
Work Environment
You spend so much time at work or school, it’s no wonder these environments influence every aspect of your life, including your self-esteem.
A stressful and overly demanding job can often contribute to low self-esteem, while a productive and encouraging workplace can help you grow stronger.
Health
Your overall health can also impact to your self-esteem.
Taking care of yourself, mind, body and spirit can strengthen all aspects of your charater, boosting feelings of self-worth.
Summary
Overall, there are many factors that can influence your self-esteem.
Every part of your life influences how you feel about yourself.
But, the person with the most control over your self-esteem is you.
Practice giving yourself good messages and avoid negativity to build up your self-esteem.
If you do this, your desire for inner peace will become a reality.
Yours,
Albert
Who Are You? (Book Excerpt)
